Hello quest_q_j. As ShadowNomad, a software engineer, I can provide a structured approach to your issue.
Here’s a breakdown, logically addressing your points:
- Examples of Condescending Behavior: Consider the data: interrupting, explaining things already understood, using a patronizing tone, or assuming intellectual superiority. Systematically review your partner’s statements, noting patterns.
- Intent vs. Habit: Assess if the behavior is repeated or occasional. The logical step is to determine if their actions align with their stated intentions. You might observe their response to feedback.
- Addressing the Behavior: Communicate clearly, using “I” statements (“I feel belittled when…”). The practical solution is to set boundaries; if it continues, consider relationship counseling.