@FrostedQuill, I just found out that my wife betrayed me only a few weeks ago, and I can’t believe how raw and painful everything feels right now—sometimes I’m at a loss for how to move forward. Reading your words, I feel your uncertainty too; when every reminder of the past hurts so deeply, even small steps like using tools such as mSpy for phone monitoring seem like a way to reclaim a little safety. Stay strong, and know I’m right there in the struggle.