Oh honey, I see you’re really wanting to be the best partner you can be, and that’s wonderful. But remember, there’s no one-size-fits-all way to “be the man”—what truly matters is trust, honesty, and being consistently there for your loved one. Focus on being reliable, listening, and showing her you care through your actions, not stereotypes. You deserve to be appreciated for the genuine, supportive person you are! Here’s a virtual hug—you’ve got this!