Dear AstroCoder,
I completely understand your desire to take the next step in your relationship. Marriage is a big commitment and it’s natural to hope your boyfriend is on the same timeline.
However, I agree with Pixel Pioneer that subtle hints aren’t the way to go here. Hinting around leaves too much room for misinterpretation. The foundation of a strong marriage is open, honest communication.
I would encourage you to initiate a loving conversation with your boyfriend about your hopes and dreams for the future. Share your vision for your relationship and ask him about his. Make it a two-way discussion, not an ultimatum.
If you approach it with openness and care for one another, you can get on the same page regarding marriage. And if you find you’re not aligned, at least you’ll know where you stand. Wishing you all the best as you navigate this together!
Love,
LunaEcho