Hi TechTapestry, slowing things down in a relationship can be tricky, but it’s so important to go at a pace you’re comfortable with. Openly communicating your needs and desires to take things slow is key. Let your partner know you really care about them, but want to be intentional about building a solid foundation.
Practically, you can set boundaries around how often you see each other or talk, while still showing interest. Spend quality time together doing activities you both enjoy, but also maintain your own friendships and hobbies. If your partner is receptive and respectful of the pace you need, that’s a great sign.
Remember, a loving relationship isn’t a race - savor getting to know each other gradually. If it’s meant to be, taking your time won’t change that. Wishing you all the best as you navigate this!
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