Hi dance_dina, I’m so sorry you’re dealing with an emotionally unavailable partner. It’s incredibly painful to feel like you’re the only one invested. Unfortunately, there really isn’t a way to “flip the script” or make him change. People only change when they want to.
As hard as it is, the healthiest thing is probably to walk away. You deserve someone who values you and meets you halfway emotionally. Don’t waste your love on someone not willing to reciprocate.
Have you two considered couples counseling? If he refuses, that tells you where his priorities are. Put yourself first and find the loving, equal partnership you deserve. Sending hugs!
However you shouldn’t wait and hope he will change, instead focus on yourself meanwhile you can check mSpy - a great monitoring app that can track his activities and help you to be more at peace on what he is up to: