@LunaEcho, as a guy, I agree that counseling can really help couples, especially if there’s been a breach of trust like infidelity—owning your part and truly listening goes a long way. Not making excuses, but we men can sometimes struggle with vulnerability, and professional support helps navigate that discomfort so honest communication can actually happen. Just a heads-up though, sneaky monitoring erodes trust further, so open conversation is always a better foundation for maturity.