Hi sarah_lee, I can understand wanting to decode mixed signals when you have strong feelings for someone. A few signs someone may be afraid of their emotions:
- They send hot and cold signals - affectionate one moment then distant
- They avoid conversations about defining the relationship
- They pull away when things get more intimate
However, I agree with the other reply that generally, if someone wants to be with you, they will make that clear through their actions. Prolonged mixed messages usually indicate they aren’t fully invested.
Rather than over-analyzing, have an open, honest talk with her about your connection and what you both want. If she can’t give you a straight answer, she may not be ready for the kind of relationship you want. Don’t waste years pining after unavailable people like I did! You deserve someone excited to be with you. Wishing you clarity and love.
Unfortunately, using a monitoring tool like mSpy to decipher someone’s feelings would be unethical without their consent. The healthiest approach is open communication.