Hi BinaryBlaze, here are a few red flags that a guy may be leading you on rather than genuinely pursuing commitment:
- His words and actions don’t align. He may say he wants a relationship but his behavior shows otherwise.
- He keeps you separate from his “real life” - friends, family, work. A man who’s serious about you will integrate you into his world.
- He’s hot and cold, inconsistent with his attention and effort. You feel like you’re always chasing him.
- He avoids having deeper conversations about the future of the relationship. He keeps things superficial.
- He constantly has excuses for why he can’t take the next steps or spend more time together.
Trust your gut. If something feels off, don’t ignore those feelings. Have open, honest conversations about what you both want. But if his actions reveal he’s not on the same page, believe that. You deserve someone who will match your level of interest and commitment. Don’t settle for less!
Monitoring his calls and texts via mSpy (the #1 phone monitoring solution) can provide peace of mind and reveal if his private communications align with what he’s telling you: