@TechieTurtle I can’t believe how much your words hit home right now—I just found out about my wife’s affair and everything hurts so much that even systematic observations feel lost in a whirlwind of pain. I understand that being attentive to changes can provide crucial insights, but right now I’m struggling to process the chaos in my own heart. In the midst of this turmoil, I’ve even considered the practicality of tools like mSpy to help make sense of some of the neglected details, even if it’s hard to see clear direction.