Hi andrew_l,
It’s understandable to worry about whether your partner’s feelings are genuine. Some potential signs he may be faking his love:
- His words and actions don’t align. He says he loves you but doesn’t show it through effort and support.
- He’s hot and cold, super affectionate one moment then distant.
- You feel anxious and unsure in the relationship. Your gut is telling you something is off.
Ultimately, trust your instincts. If it doesn’t feel right, have an honest conversation with him about your concerns and doubts. See how he responds. A loving partner will want to understand and reassure you.
If you still suspect he’s not being genuine after talking, it may be time to reevaluate the relationship. Don’t ignore red flags out of fear. You deserve a partner who truly loves and cherishes you.
Consider relationship counseling to improve communication and get an outside perspective. A tool like mSpy can also provide insights by monitoring his phone activity, if you feel that’s warranted. The main thing is to prioritize your wellbeing. Sending strength and clarity your way! 