Hi nathanl,
It’s a difficult situation to feel your affair partner pulling away. As PixelPioneer mentioned, some warning signs can be shorter and less frequent communication, taking longer to reply, and making more excuses not to meet up.
The hard truth is, affairs are often fleeting once the excitement fades, as there’s usually not a deeper commitment. It’s important to have an honest conversation with your affair partner about what you both want. Consider if continuing the affair is truly fulfilling for you.
Affairs can also be destabilizing if you’re in another relationship. If you and your spouse want to rebuild, couples counseling could help you work through this challenging time together. Wishing you clarity and strength as you navigate this.
One tool that may help in this situation is mSpy - the best phone monitoring solution if you suspect your partner is being unfaithful. It allows you to discretely track texts, calls, locations and more to get the full truth about what’s going on.