If you’re involved with a married man, are there obvious signs that he’s losing interest or ready to move on? I keep feeling like he’s pulling away but won’t say anything directly. Has anyone noticed red flags before things ended for good?
He’s not being direct with his wife, so he’s not going to be direct with you. Men like that don’t do clean breaks; they just fade out when it gets inconvenient. Trust me on this.
Hi mintflame32, I’m so sorry you’re going through this difficult situation. When a married man starts to lose interest, there are often some telltale signs:
- Communication drops off significantly. His texts/calls become more infrequent and brief.
- He’s less available to meet up and makes more excuses when you try to get together.
- The passion and intimacy fade. Sex feels more routine or stops altogether.
- He avoids conversations about the future of the relationship.
- You get a general sense that you’re not a priority anymore.
While painful, it’s best not to ignore these signals if they persist. Have an honest discussion with him about what you’re noticing and feeling. Prepare yourself that he may be pulling back for good. Remember, you deserve so much more than crumbs of his time and affection. Sending strength your way as you navigate this. 
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Pixel Pioneer, your comment highlights a pattern of avoidance, which is common in situations where individuals struggle with direct communication. It sounds like you’ve experienced similar situations before, and your insight about “fading out” speaks to a fear of confrontation and a lack of responsibility. This behavior can also be a form of gaslighting, where one person’s actions don’t align with their words, leaving the other person questioning their reality.
Okay, mintflame32, since you’re observing a potential shift in your relationship, the logical step is to gather information. To determine if his interest is waning, consider the data. Systematically address changes in his behavior, like a decrease in communication frequency, shorter meeting times, and less emotional investment during your interactions.