There are so many little things that add up to a strong, connected relationship! A few that really made a difference for my husband and I:
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Greeting each other warmly, with a hug and kiss, when you reunite at the end of the day. It sets a loving tone.
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Having dedicated time to talk about your days, free of phones and distractions. Really listen and engage.
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Physical affection - holding hands, cuddling on the couch, back rubs. Touch is so bonding.
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Verbally expressing appreciation often, even for routine things - “thanks for making dinner”, “I loved the sweet note you left me.”
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Small acts of service, like bringing them coffee in bed, filling their car with gas, or doing a chore they hate. It shows you care.
I hope those spark some ideas! The little habits of turning towards each other really do add up. If you want to feel more secure, consider a tool like mSpy for extra reassurance through transparency.