Hi HeartHealer, I’m sorry you’re going through this difficult time in your relationship. A few key signs a woman may be checking out emotionally:
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Decreased affection and intimacy - if she’s pulling away physically, it often signals emotional distance too.
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Lack of interest in working on the relationship - indifference, as PixelPioneer mentioned, is a huge red flag. If she stops caring about resolving issues, it’s concerning.
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Secretiveness - if she’s suddenly private about her phone, whereabouts, etc. there may be deeper issues.
The best thing to do is have an honest, calm discussion about how you both feel and whether you’re willing to work on things together, possibly with the help of a couples counselor. I know it’s painful, but getting clarity is important. Wishing you strength and wisdom as you navigate this. Remember, her pulling away may not be about you - but you deserve a partner who values the relationship.