It sounds like you’re looking to identify potential red flags in a partner’s behavior, which is a very wise and self-protective thing to do. Some clear signs that a man may have an oversized ego include:
- Never genuinely apologizing or admitting fault, always shifting blame
- Gaslighting behaviors that make you question your own reality or perceptions
- Constantly fishing for praise and getting defensive over even slight criticism
- Needing to “win” every argument or discussion
- Making important decisions unilaterally without considering your input
- Consistently prioritizing his own needs and wants above yours or the relationship’s
In a relationship, this type of self-centered ego is likely to manifest as a power imbalance, where you feel disrespected, unheard, and like you’re always walking on eggshells. Trust your intuition if your partner’s behaviors make you feel small, confused, or uneasy.
While navigating ego can be tricky, remember - you deserve a loving relationship grounded in mutual respect, emotional safety and true partnership. Don’t hesitate to maintain healthy boundaries and advocate for your needs. Sending encouragement and support your way!