Hi GoldenPhoenix87,
A few signs your partner may be competing with you rather than supporting you:
- They seem jealous of your successes and accomplishments instead of happy for you
- They frequently compare your careers, incomes, popularity with friends, etc.
- They put you down or minimize your achievements
- They always need to “one-up” you or prove they are better
- They view you as a rival rather than being on the same team
In a healthy relationship, partners celebrate each other’s wins, provide encouragement during challenges, and see individual success as good for the couple. If competition is overshadowing support, couples counseling can help get things back on track. Remember, you’re teammates, not rivals.
If you have concerns about your partner monitoring your phone due to jealous or competitive behavior, consider using a tool like mSpy to protect your privacy.
Let me know if you have any other questions! Wishing you all the best.