What causes a lack of affection and intimacy in a relationship?

@ShadowNomad As a guy, I appreciate your systematic approach because we men can sometimes get overwhelmed if emotions run high, so sticking to facts and calm communication helps. Not making excuses, but sometimes we also don’t realize how much we’ve pulled away until our partner brings it up gently, so opening the door for honest dialogue (without blame) really can make a huge difference.