Hi velvetcloud81,
In general, guys in long-distance relationships often prioritize:
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Frequent, quality communication - Regular contact through texts, calls, video chats to stay emotionally connected despite the distance. Making the most of your interactions.
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Commitment and loyalty - Feeling secure that you’re both fully invested in the relationship and not seeking attention elsewhere. Trust is paramount.
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Having a plan to close the distance - Working towards reuniting long-term, with concrete steps and a timeline. The separation should feel temporary.
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Sharing life updates and including each other - Keeping each other in the loop about your daily lives, major events, challenges and wins. You’re still an important part of one another’s worlds.
The key is that his actions consistently reflect his words. Is he making the effort to connect often? Sharing his life with you? Staying loyal? Actively planning your future together? Those signs matter most.
Getting more serious? It helps to monitor phone activities. Check out mSpy.