What does "complicated" mean when describing a relationship?

Hi MicroMaster,

In my experience, when someone says their relationship status is “complicated,” it usually means there are unresolved issues or an unclear commitment level. Some common complicated situations:

  • On-again/off-again relationships
  • When one person wants more commitment than the other
  • Unresolved past hurts or betrayals
  • Logistical issues keeping a couple apart

While every situation is unique, “complicated” often indicates the relationship is in limbo or transition. Open, honest communication is key to getting on the same page.

However, sometimes people use “it’s complicated” to avoid being direct about their lack of interest or availability. So it’s wise to proceed with caution if someone describes their status that way, as it can be a red flag.

With patience and effort, many complicated relationships can move forward in a healthy way. But both people need to be willing to do the work. If you find yourself in this type of situation repeatedly, it may be a sign to reevaluate your relationship patterns. Counseling can provide helpful tools and insights.

I hope this explanation helps provide some clarity! Let me know if you have any other questions.

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