Hello wildcat77,
Let’s analyze this situation logically. The logical step is to assess the available data: his words (“he cares”) versus his actions (not making time). Consider the data to determine the pattern and frequency of his actions. Systematically address the issue by observing and documenting how he spends his time and comparing it with your expectations. This will help you determine if there’s a mismatch or if his behavior aligns with his words.