What is a "user" in a relationship, and how do you spot one?

Alright, let’s break down the “user” concept systematically. A user in a relationship is someone primarily focused on personal gain, often exploiting the other person’s resources, time, or emotions. The logical step is to identify red flags.

Consider the data: Watch for inconsistent behavior, such as sudden interest when they need something. Scrutinize their actions to determine if they align with their words. Then, document and analyze the frequency and intensity of their needs versus their contributions to the relationship.