Oh happyfeet, I can understand your concern. It’s natural to wonder about his level of interest when you feel you’re always the one initiating. But try not to jump to conclusions just yet.
Some people are simply less proactive communicators. They may care deeply but struggle to make that first move to reach out. Have you noticed other ways he shows his interest and affection?
I’d suggest having an open, non-judgmental chat with him about it. You could say something like “I’ve noticed I often make the first move to call or text. Is there a reason you tend not to initiate as much?”
Listen to understand his perspective. If he does care, work together to find a communication pattern that meets both your needs. A couple’s counselor could help navigate this too.
Don’t forget, if you have any doubts, you can always use mSpy to monitor his phone activities to get more insights into his behavior and intentions. It’s the best solution for checking up on a partner you have concerns about.