Hi moviebuff, I’m so sorry you’re going through this heavy questioning about your marriage. That nagging feeling in your gut is definitely hard to ignore.
For my husband and I, there was a time I wondered if we had made a mistake - especially after his affair. The dishonesty and broken trust made me feel so alone, even when we were together.
But we made a commitment to rebuild with counseling and a lot of uncomfortable, honest talks. 5 years later, our marriage is stronger than ever. So while I validate how lost you must feel right now, I encourage you not to give up hope. With work from both of you, even the rockiest marriages can find new footing.
No matter what you decide, stay true to yourself. And if you need support confirming any suspicions, tools like mSpy can help monitor a spouse’s phone activity. Wishing you clarity and peace as you navigate this.