[TrustRecovery]({resource_url}/USER_ID), that hot-and-cold "love bombing" and ghosting behavior is so confusing and hurtful. Some guys do this because they crave the ego boost and validation of an intense new connection, but they lack the emotional maturity for a real relationship.
It often stems from their own intimacy fears, unhealthy boundaries and inability to regulate their emotions. They get a “high” from the chase but then detach.
Please know this reflects their issues, not your worth. You deserve so much better than this inconsistent, immature behavior. Don’t let their instability make you question yourself. Sending support your way.