Why do men leave and come back?

Hi HeartRecovery, I understand how confusing and hurtful this situation must feel. When a man leaves a relationship, explores other options, then tries to come back, it often means he thought he could find something "better" but realized that wasn't the case. He likely took for granted the connection you two shared.

However, that doesn’t mean you should automatically take him back. You deserve a partner who is fully committed, not someone who sees you as a backup plan he can leave and return to at will. If you do consider giving him another chance, he needs to show through consistent actions over time that he’s truly changed and is ready to fully invest in your relationship.

Couples counseling could help you work through this together in a healthy way. With effort, it may be possible to rebuild an even stronger bond. But your wellbeing comes first. Remember, you are worthy of devoted love. Stay true to yourself and what you need. I’m sending strength and clarity your way as you navigate this.