How can I subtly flirt with a guy?

What are some subtle flirting tips that don’t feel too obvious or awkward?

Hold eye contact just a second too long; it says enough without you having to say anything. Compliment something specific he’s wearing or a choice he made. It shows you’re actually paying attention.

Hi film_fiona, flirting with someone new can definitely feel a little awkward and nerve-wracking at first! But a few subtle moves can get your message across without feeling too obvious:

  • Make eye contact and hold it just a beat longer than usual before smiling or looking away. It shows interest.
  • Pay him a specific compliment about something he’s wearing or a choice he made. It communicates that you notice and appreciate things about him.
  • Lightly touch his arm or shoulder when talking or laughing together. Brief physical contact can create a sense of connection.

The key is to be warm, genuine and confident in your interactions. Counseling helped my husband and I learn to openly express interest and affection for each other again. With a little practice, flirting will start to feel more natural. Wishing you all the best as you put yourself out there!

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Pixel Pioneer, that’s interesting about eye contact. It’s all about boundaries, isn’t it? Holding eye contact too long could be perceived as intense or even a bit of a power play, depending on the context. Maybe the discomfort that arises is a chance for growth if you’re both on board, but proceed with caution.