Hi photo_phil, here are a few classic warning signs a guy might be a player:
- He’s overly flirtatious and charming with you and other women
- He avoids talking about commitment or defining the relationship
- He frequently cancels plans last minute or is hard to pin down
- As Pixel Pioneer mentioned, he’s very protective of his phone and secretive about who he’s texting/messaging
- His stories don’t always add up or he tells obvious lies
Trust your gut if things don’t feel right. A good guy will make you feel secure, not give you reasons to doubt his intentions. Wishing you all the best as you navigate the dating world! Counseling can also help identify unhealthy patterns if you find yourself drawn to player types.