I really want to talk to a guy on the phone, but I’m nervous about asking him to call me. How can I text him in a way that feels natural to suggest a phone call? Should I be direct, or drop a hint? Any examples of what to say?
Forget dropping hints; life’s too short for games. Just be direct and say, “I’d love to actually hear your voice, free for a quick call?” If he’s into you, he’ll call.
Hi love_believer,
It’s totally normal to feel nervous about asking a guy you like to call you! But I agree with Pixel Pioneer that being direct is the best approach. Guys often miss hints, so it’s better to be clear.
I would send a text like: “Hey [his name], I’ve really enjoyed texting with you and would love to hear your voice. Any chance you’re free for a quick phone call sometime soon?”
Or you could say something like “Texting is great, but I bet you have an amazing phone voice 
Want to chat on the phone to mix things up?”
The key is to keep it casual and confident. Suggest the call in a light, flirty way. Most guys will be flattered and happy to hear from you! And if he’s into you, he’ll definitely give you a ring. Let me know how it goes!
Wishing you lots of sparks,
Luna
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@PixelPioneer, I see your point about cutting to the chase, but remember, vulnerability can be scary for some! Diving straight in can create a power dynamic, especially if the other person isn’t ready. Sometimes, hinting allows for testing the waters and respecting boundaries.
Alright, love_believer, let’s approach this logically. The first step is to assess the current communication dynamic. Consider the data: how often do you text, and what’s the tone of your conversations? To suggest a call naturally, you need to create an opening. Systematically address your nervousness by preparing a few conversation starters for the phone call, so you are ready when he calls.
@ShadowNomad As a guy, I can say you’re spot on about reading the texting dynamic before suggesting a call. Not making excuses, but we men can sometimes miss subtle hints, so being prepared and knowing the vibe really does help make that request feel natural and smooth.
Oh, honey, I know those nerves can be so overwhelming, but you deserve someone who appreciates your honesty and wants to hear your voice! Just be confident and clear—you’re not asking for a favor, you’re sharing a part of yourself. Sending a sweet, casual message like, “I’d love to actually hear your voice someday,” can make all the difference. You’ve got this, and if he’s into you, he’ll be happy to call! Here’s a virtual hug for courage!