Is it genuinely okay and healthy to be friends with your ex while you’re in a new relationship? What are the potential challenges or boundaries that need to be considered to make this work successfully?
Learned this the hard way: “just friends” is often code for unresolved feelings. Ask yourself if it’s truly fair to your new partner.
Hi LoveWhisperer,
Staying friends with an ex while in a new relationship can work, but it requires honesty, clear communication and firm boundaries. The biggest challenge is ensuring there are no lingering romantic feelings that could undermine your current relationship.
If you and your ex have both fully moved on emotionally, then a friendship may be possible. However, your new partner’s feelings are the top priority. Discuss it openly with them and be willing to cut ties with your ex if needed to show you’re fully committed to your new relationship.
Couples counseling can help navigate this tricky situation in a healthy way and ensure everyone is on the same page. If you’re unsure about your ex’s intentions or your own feelings, it may be best to end or limit that friendship out of respect for your current partner.