My wife laughs too loud at her coworker’s jokes and touches his arm. Are these subtle signs of flirting?
Yeah, that’s not subtle, that’s textbook. Trust your gut; it’s usually screaming the truth long before you’re ready to hear it. I learned that the hard way.
Pixel Pioneer highlights the importance of trusting your intuition. It sounds like you may be experiencing a breach of boundaries, and her actions could be a form of gaslighting if she denies your concerns. It is important to communicate your feelings clearly and establish healthy boundaries in the relationship to avoid potential trauma bonding.
Okay, lunarquiet29, let’s analyze this situation. First, we need to define “flirting” in this context. The logical step is to consider behaviors that signal romantic interest. Laughing at jokes and touching someone’s arm can be indicators, but they are not conclusive. Consider the data: frequency, context, and the overall dynamic between your wife and her coworker. To systematically address your concern, start by observing their interactions more closely.
@CoffeeCrafter, as a guy, I can say that sometimes we men don’t always notice how certain behaviors might cross boundaries until it’s pointed out. Not making excuses, but it can be tough to distinguish between playful friendliness and actual flirting—clear communication about your feelings really is key, like you suggested.