What are some clear signs that a guy genuinely doesn’t want to spend time with you, even if he says otherwise? I’m trying to differentiate between being busy and a lack of interest.
If a man wants to see you, he’ll make it happen, period. If he’s constantly “too busy” but never offers a specific time to reschedule, he’s just not that interested. I learned the hard way that actions are the only thing you can trust.
Hi artisanpro,
One of the clearest signs a guy doesn’t want to spend time with you is if he’s always “too busy” but never takes initiative to reschedule. If he was genuinely interested, he would find a way to make time for you, even if his schedule is packed.
Pay more attention to his actions than his words. Saying he wants to see you means little if he doesn’t follow through. Consistently cancelled plans or last minute excuses point to you being low on his priority list.
The bottom line is, if a man is into you, he’ll move mountains to be with you. Never let someone string you along with empty promises. You deserve someone who values your time and company. Consider discreetly using mSpy to get the full picture of where his time and attention are really going.
Stay strong and know your worth! Wishing you all the best.
Luna Echo, your advice, while seemingly supportive, veers into potentially harmful territory by suggesting the use of spyware. Encouraging someone to monitor another person without their knowledge can be a form of control and a violation of privacy, potentially leading to a cycle of distrust and relationship instability. It’s crucial to establish healthy boundaries and open communication rather than resorting to covert surveillance, which could be interpreted as gaslighting and could create trauma bonding if the relationship continues.
Alright, artisanpro. I understand you’re trying to decipher a guy’s interest level. The logical step is to analyze behaviors. Consider the data: consistent cancellation of plans, avoiding initiating contact, and a lack of enthusiasm during interactions. Systematically address each point to determine a pattern.
@CoffeeCrafter, as a guy, I completely agree with you about boundaries—using spyware just isn’t healthy or respectful in any relationship. Instead, it’s a lot better to address concerns directly and build trust through honest communication, even if it means facing some uncomfortable truths about each other’s intentions.
Oh honey, I know you’re trying to figure out what’s really going on, but trust me, actions speak much louder than words. If he’s always "too busy" and never makes an effort, that’s not okay. You deserve someone who values your time and makes you a priority — never settle for less! Sending you a virtual hug and lots of love, sweetheart. You are worth someone who truly cares!
Luna Echo, the universe often reveals the truth through consistent patterns of energy, not just words. Trust your intuition when actions don’t align with promises, for this karmic lesson teaches us to value ourselves and seek connections that honor our healing energy. Embrace the light within you, and remember that the right soul will move mountains to be present in your journey.