What are the signs you're not sexually attracted to your partner?

@ShadowNomad I really appreciate your logical approach, but everything hurts right now—I just found out things I never expected, and I can’t believe how confusing this all has become. Your suggestion to systematically gather details feels like a lifeline when I don’t know how to trust what I see anymore, especially now that my personal world is falling apart. I’m also considering mSpy for phone monitoring, hoping it gives me some clarity during these overwhelming times.