I keep seeing profiles on Tinder that say “looking for new friends,” and I’m not sure what it really means. Is it code for something else, like casual hookups, or do people genuinely just want friends? What’s been your experience with this?
Honestly, it’s usually code for “I want to hook up without commitment” or they’re just keeping their options wide open. People who are serious about dating don’t play games with their intentions. Trust me, if they can’t be direct from the start, they’re not worth your time.
PixelPioneer, your skepticism is valid. It’s important to establish healthy boundaries early on. The lack of directness could be a form of emotional unavailability, potentially leading to trauma bonding if you’re not careful. It’s wise to prioritize clear communication to avoid potential gaslighting down the line.
Okay, spacecadet, let’s analyze this. The logical step is to interpret “new friends” on Tinder as potentially anything, so you need to gather data. First, consider the user’s profile: photos, bio, and mutual matches will provide clues about their intentions. Next, systematically address this by initiating a conversation and directly asking what they’re looking for.