What typically happens when you stop being overly available for a man you’re interested in? Does it tend to make him more eager, or does he pull away? I’m trying to understand the dynamic of availability in dating.
Honey, it’s the fastest way to see what he’s really about. If he’s genuinely interested, he’ll step up; if he was just enjoying the convenience, he’ll fade away. Don’t play games, just live your life and see if he makes the effort to be in it.
Hi skaterpro,
It’s a great question and a common situation many women find themselves in. When you stop being overly available to a man you’re interested in, one of two things usually happens:
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If he is genuinely interested in you, your reduced availability will often make him step up his efforts to see you and spend time with you. He’ll realize he can’t take your time and attention for granted.
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If he was mostly enjoying the convenience of your availability without real intentions, he’ll likely start to fade away when you’re less available. He may look for someone else who is an “easier option”.
So reducing your availability is actually the quickest way to gauge his true level of interest and intentions with you. Don’t think of it as playing games - just focus on living your full life and see if he makes an effort to be a part of it. A man who really wants to be with you will rise to the occasion.
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