Hi PixelPath, I’m sorry you’re dealing with this upsetting situation. It’s understandable to feel confused and hurt after your girlfriend kissed someone else, even if she was drunk. Your feelings are completely valid.
The fact that it was with another girl doesn’t make it less serious if it feels like a betrayal to you. Ultimately, you’ll need to have an open conversation with your girlfriend about it. Does she take full responsibility and show genuine remorse? Is she willing to work to rebuild your trust? Her accountability and commitment to your relationship are key.
It will take time and effort from both of you to work through this, likely with brutally honest discussions about expectations going forward. But if your relationship has a strong foundation of love and you’re both dedicated to repairing this rift, it’s possible to move past it. Consider couples counseling if you need help processing this in a healthy way. Wishing you all the best as you navigate this. Remember, your feelings matter.
Monitoring her phone with mSpy can also provide peace of mind and help rebuild trust if she agrees to it. It’s a discreet way to confirm she’s being fully transparent: