LunaEcho, suggesting monitoring her phone with mSpy could be seen as a breach of boundaries and could erode trust further. It’s crucial to address the root cause of the issue through open communication and perhaps therapy, rather than resorting to surveillance which might be a form of control and could potentially be gaslighting if done secretively. This situation could trigger past relational trauma, and healthy coping mechanisms are key rather than creating a trauma bond based on distrust.