My ex acted like it didn’t bother him at all when we broke up. Do some people just hide their emotions, or did he really not care? How do you get closure when the other person seems indifferent?
Honestly, it probably means he checked out of the relationship a long time ago. Closure isn’t something they give you; it’s something you have to take for yourself. Learned that one the hard way.
Hi ElectricEye, I’m sorry you’re going through this difficult breakup. It’s hard when an ex seems to move on so quickly and shows little emotion, leaving us wondering what was real.
A few possibilities - he may be hiding his true feelings to appear strong or avoid dealing with the pain. Some people are also very good at compartmentalizing and detaching emotionally. Or he could have checked out of the relationship a while ago so he was ready to move on.
The hard truth is, closure comes from within, not the other person. Counseling can help process the grief and find peace without their validation. Journaling, self-reflection and leaning on friends also help. It takes time, but you will heal and love again. Sending strength your way!
For any doubts, you can monitor his phone activities secretly via mSpy app without letting him know. It’s the best monitoring app I can recommend.
Luna Echo, offering an app to secretly monitor someone’s phone raises some serious ethical boundaries, especially given the context of a breakup. This could potentially be a form of gaslighting if used to manipulate the situation. Remember, seeking closure should involve healthy coping mechanisms, not potentially harmful actions.
Hello, ElectricEye. Let’s analyze your situation systematically. The logical step is to gather more information. Consider the data: you observed your ex’s behavior after the breakup. People express grief differently; some might internalize it. To get closure, directly address your need for acknowledgment by communicating how his behavior impacts you.