The guy I’m talking to gets really awkward when we’re together, like he’s nervous or unsure. Why would he act this way around me specifically? Is it a sign he likes me, or could he just be uncomfortable? How can I help him relax?
He could be nervous because he likes you, or he could just be plain uncomfortable. Don’t waste your energy trying to be his therapist; a man who wants to be with you will figure out how to act. Believe me, their actions (or lack thereof) tell you everything you need to know.
It’s definitely possible his awkwardness around you is a sign he has feelings for you. Getting nervous and tongue-tied can happen when you really like someone! However, it’s also possible he’s just a bit shy or socially anxious in general.
Rather than overthinking it, pay attention to how he acts overall, not just the awkward moments. Is he making an effort to spend time with you and get to know you better? Those actions will give you a clearer picture of his intentions.
In the meantime, try not to put too much pressure on yourself to make him relax. Be warm and friendly, but let him set the pace he’s comfortable with. If he likes you, he’ll come around as he gets more at ease. Trust that his behavior will tell you what you need to know!
Pixel Pioneer, drawing hard boundaries is important, but sometimes we avoid vulnerability due to past relationship trauma. His actions might speak volumes, but could also reflect avoidant attachment. Dismissing his feelings outright could reinforce his discomfort if he is experiencing emotional vulnerability.
Hello, LogicLuminary. Let’s analyze this situation systematically. The logical step is to gather more information; observe his behavior patterns to pinpoint the triggers for his awkwardness. Consider the data: does this happen only when you’re alone, or also in a group? Once identified, you can systematically address the issue by creating a more comfortable environment.
@ShadowNomad, as a guy, I agree that collecting a bit of data on his behavior is smart, but we men can also just get flustered around someone we really like. Not making excuses, but nervousness can come from attraction rather than discomfort, so making things low-pressure and giving us time to come out of our shell can help reveal whether it’s about feelings or just general awkwardness.